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Treat every member with respect, kindness, and empathy. Our community is not intended for dating purposes. All interactions should remain respectful and appropriate for all members. Be mindful of your words and actions, and avoid any form of harassment, discrimination, or offensive behavior. ATC does not allow the sharing of explicit content. All interactions should remain respectful and appropriate for all members.
Inclusive Community
Embrace diversity and inclusivity. We value different perspectives, backgrounds, and experiences. Engage in discussions that foster a welcoming and inclusive atmosphere for all.
Confidentiality and Privacy
Respect the privacy of other members. Do not share personal information or any content shared within the community without explicit permission.
Constructive Communication
Foster open and constructive communication. Express your opinions and thoughts in a respectful manner, and be open to listening and understanding different viewpoints.
Accountability
Take responsibility for your words and actions. If any concerns arise, send a report to report@aroundthecorner.today. ATC will address the issue promptly and appropriately.
No Self-Promotion
While ATC encourages sharing knowledge and experiences, refrain from excessive self-promotion, spamming, or advertising. The focus should be on meaningful connections and conversations.
Compliance with Laws and Guidelines
Adhere to all applicable laws, regulations, and community guidelines. Do not engage in any illegal activities or encourage others to do so.
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spidergrl
She / Her
Alameda, CA
one of my favorite photos i've taken in ny
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Where are you at in your life stage?
In my early 20s, I recently moved out of the hometown I grew up in for new job I landed in the city. As of now I’m enrolled in a promising paid apprenticeship program that pays me to continue my education as a Business Major (woohoo) while working for the company, a privilege that I'm very grateful to have gotten- especially in a relatively job-secure industry.
I’m trying to orient myself to this new environment in the east bay, make new friends, etc. I want to lead a more active lifestyle as well, hence why I’ve been making an effort to ask around and put myself out there socially. Spontaneity and trying new things have always been a huge aspect of my approach to life! Life is beautiful and so are the people who make it worthwhile.
How's your life?
It feels like I’m at a very pivotal moment in my life, it could be better. I recently ended a relationship, and I am trying to seek out better friends. With that said I have a strong resolve in regard to making that decision and I feel relatively stable from a mental and psychological standpoint.
I realized a lot of people that were in my life do not align with who I am becoming as a person. I'm in a place where I am in the process of evolving and setting my sights on building a stronger, deeply rooted community for myself that is uplifting. I value deep, thought provoking conversations and listening to individuals express themselves. That alone brings me immense joy!
A lot has changed in the past few months for me- I'm in a new city with a new job and social circle. The future seems bright and promising, but navigating life has been challenging with so much change in such a short time. 2024 has been a challenge, but I aim to learn something and become a better version of myself every day :)
What helps you keep your sanity?
Reading (historical fiction primarily), cooking (trying to experiment with Moroccan and Korean cuisine), gardening, the gym, socializing in general. Hiking, gardening with tropical and native plants, and journaling are all things I value greatly too. Rock and alternative music has been my escape, I’m trying to get back into practicing guitar more frequently.
A HOT BOWL OF PHO
What is most important to you right now?
Evolving and improving as a person and forming healthier friendships. The world is so vast, and it's genuinely so fulfilling to learn about people’s respective backgrounds and aspirations.
Moving forward in my career and my studies is huge for me! As is the goal for most people who are around my age, we're all taking it one day at a time :)
Anything you recently found interesting?
When you look up at the stars, you might be making inadvertent eye-contact with an alien who’s also looking up at the stars.
spidergrl
@Newtothisyall Yes! I think that was my post you found under r/alameda haha. I jumped on the chance right away! I love the website and it's concept + the writing aspect used to connect individuals. I was actually about to comment on your profile as well! Noticed you were also from Alameda, sent a coffee req in case you were interested!
Newtothisyall
Omg hi again! For some reason I can’t see the coffee req and didn’t even realize I got an email notification that you replied!!! Let me send you a coffee req!!
around the corner
where two strangers meet over coffee
cleanleathery1
He / Him
Berkeley, CA
My favorite camping area at French Meadows reservoir
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Where are you at in your life stage?
I've graduated with my master's in urban planning and currently being proactive in launching my career. I'm applying to work all over the United States and planning to attend career events.
I'm also practicing my cooking skills, being more rigorous in the hikes I take, and exercising frequently nowadays.
How's your life?
My life is a work in progress right now but I'm getting closer to attaining my goals every day. I try to be productive and on top of my responsibilities consistently.
I have to be out of the house every week to maintain good mental health, either taking a walk in my favorite parks, exercising at the gym, watching the sunset, or trying out a cafe I haven't frequented in my area.
What helps you keep your sanity?
Hiking, practicing photography, mountain biking; really allowing myself to become one with nature. Traveling to nature is akin to a spiritual experience for me.
What is most important to you right now?
Obtaining a job I find meaningful and advancing in my career has to be my first priority, but there's so much more that I want to experience, that I value. I want to build up my endurance and I have plans to hike the face of a mountain in my area quite soon. I intensely enjoy camping and wish to return to the Sierra Nevada region, as nature is so much of a reprieve for me.
I'm single at the moment and looking to find a long-term partner.
I am seeking new friendships too- people I can have deep, meaningful experiences with. If anything I've said here resonates I'd love to talk more.
Anything you recently found interesting?
The Bay Area is a hub for interesting wildlife.
cleanleathery1
@Newtothisyall It's ok! I did not see your coffee rec but thank you :)
cleanleathery1
@cleanleathery1 what are the books you are browsing? What interests you most? My feed is about self improvement, careers, hiking and photography right now
What is your idea of a perfect day?
Asked by
Sarah
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Newark
Waking up to a quiet sunrise, freshly brewed coffee and reading a book. Spending time and cooking together with my partner while we dance to the music.
Huntington Beach
Wake up naturally. Rub my dogs head. Watch her yawn and do her cute stretch. Make a cup of matcha latte. Get a little work done. Nice lunch in Little Saigon. Go to TJ Maxx and browse. Gym. Hot pot dinner. Boba. A nice walk. Sleep.
Santa Ana
Waking up without interrupted sleep. I can go about my day feeling my best and I'd exchange some smiles through transactions and to other strangers. I'd go home to make a simple meal involving lots of vegetables and I finally finish that bag of spinach. I'd go to the laundromat and coincidentally use up all my quarters. I'd then go home and light my favorite woody candle and press play on a movie I was looking forward to watching all week.
PacamaraSlick1
They / Them
Huntington Beach, CA
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Where are you at in your life stage?
Post quarter life crisis. Exploring interests I've always put off like Muay Thai and dancing. Feeling more connected to my heritage of Lao and Thai. Learning to speak Lao, Thai and Spanish. Navigating the path towards independence from familial relationships.
How's your life?
Less chaotic, more routine, more chill with the ambiguity.
My first stable job, a more chill part of my life because of discovering my goals and working towards planting seeds for my future.
What helps you keep your sanity?
Music, dancing, muay thai, learning something new.
What is most important to you right now?
Making the time to advance my skills in Muay thai and also to continue developing speaking and listening skills in Lao and Spanish. Consistency in everything including my studies, health, and relationships.
Anything you recently found interesting?
The similarities between the Lao and Thai language has been very interesting to explore recently.
Jujube
She / Her
San Francisco, CA
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Where are you at in your life stage?
I'm in my early-but-approaching-mid-thirties. I just moved back to San Francisco after being away for several years. I had left a nice job here to move to the East Coast to achieve my long-held dream of getting my master's in a field I was more passionate about. Before moving back, I ended a very meaningful relationship after having been on a dating "dry spell" for about 4 years. A month after moving back, some family stuff came up, and it took me about 3 months to sort everything out. I was hoping for some stability/coasting, but it seems like I will be laid off soon. I would say this is the year of transitions for me.
How's your life?
It’s been full of changes, especially the breaking-down of what no longer serves me/my family. And, it has been really challenging due to all the endings/beginnings. But, from a more positive lens, life has been pretty steady, mostly thanks to my family, a few close friends, and being back in my hometown of San Francisco (the familiarity is very comforting). Starting over is so hard, though. I am trying to look at it as a huge opportunity for me to continue aligning my life with my vision for myself.
What helps you keep your sanity?
Daily exercise (walking in my neighborhood, short strength-training routine right after I get up in the morning), getting enough sleep, meditation, and connecting with friends.
What is most important to you right now?
Finding my next professional role, getting back into dating, and expanding my community here in the Bay Area. I guess that's three things. :) Fundamentally: having enough energy to do all the things I want to do.
Anything you recently found interesting?
City College of San Francisco offers weight lifting classes! It’s something that I’ve been meaning to try. If anyone has any suggestions on strength training classes, please let me know!
ManintheArena
He / Him
North Hollywood, CA
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Where are you at in your life stage?
Early 30s, I'm in a very pivotal moment in my life, where a very important promotion is looming over my head. My entire career depends on it.
How's your life?
My life is great, I feel focused and sharp. Of course there are bad days and good weeks, but overall I feel hopeful, positive and inspired.
What helps you keep your sanity?
Weightlifting has been the greatest source of happiness and relaxation. I love reading self-help books and watching movies. Also very interested in songwriting and writing movie ideas. I tend to journal everyday, but sometimes I journal about not journaling everyday.
What is most important to you right now?
My promotion is always on my mind. Also, I'm always researching and diving into topics of aliens and alternate civilizations.
Anything you recently found interesting?
Started implementing AI in my everyday work and changed the game for me. I'm now 100% certain AI will surpass human intelligence in 30 years or less.
TheMoose1234
good looking cat...there is brown tabby living at my place too :)
inkypaws
What book are you reading right now? I just started the mountain is you
Knoc00
She / Her
Los Angeles, CA
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Where are you at in your life stage?
Life stages are funny sometimes. For me, nothing seems to be going in order but that isn’t necessarily a negative. I am currently growing into a life I never imagined.
I often say, I have lived many lives and I am curious to see what else will unfold.
How's your life?
At every point in my existence, I have welcomed the heartbreak along with the happiness. My life is full and fully enjoyed. Risks and setbacks are opportunities to learn exactly how determined you are.
What helps you keep your sanity?
I embrace the fact that while I might not achieve what I set out to do, my impact on others can make a substantial difference in their life. Maintaining the perspective that value can be found in even the simplest interactions has always helped me keep a calm mindset.
What is most important to you right now?
Selflessness, empathy, and kindness are too rare in the world for my liking. It’s essential to me that I not only lead by example but also help others to see the value in adding these qualities into to their lives.
Anything you recently found interesting?
I am a sucker for a challenging and beautifully crafted puzzle. I enjoy everything from jigsaw puzzles to puzzle boxes… and, as you might have guessed, I also love escape rooms.
I recently found a company that has a room that can be played multiple times with various different outcomes. I am on a mission to find enough people to join me in exploring this multilevel escape room.
CuriousGeorgette
I want to escape to where your mind is at. It’s is multilayered and damn colorful!
yoghurtpretzel
Sounds like a lot of things are happening in your life and it makes me curious about it as well! And I love what you said about value being found in the simplest interactions -- I find a lot of meaning in those types of interactions as well.
MrsPiggy
She / Her
San Mateo, CA
My pet rabbit Mochi. She recently passed from cancer, but she was a fantastic bunny.
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Where are you at in your life stage?
I am just finishing up my 20s. I just got married and moved from Canada to the Bay area last month. I work from home and don't really know how to meet people. I am looking to build a friendship group.
How's your life?
Life is good! I have a fantastic husband and am excited for our future! I am unsure how to adjust to life in the Bay though. I am from a large family and I used to see at least one family member once a week. I also had lots of projects in Canada, but now, I have a lot more free-time and I don't really know what to do with it and/or don't have the energy to do anything with it. I often feel unproductive and like I am just wasting away my days/the wonderful opportunities life gives.
What helps you keep your sanity?
Definitely the weightlifting. If everything goes to poop, at least I went to the gym! Also baking and random hobbies such as drawing, music, dance, and home improvement projects. I used to bake at least once a week and bring it to my coworkers or family members, but now I have no one to share it with as my husband doesn't eat many sweets.
What is most important to you right now?
Building a life with my husband. I would like to expand our friend group. I also am making a commitment to myself to reduce my screen time outside of work hours as I want to share more real time moments with others.
Anything you recently found interesting?
The word teetotaler originates from a speech by Richard Turner in the 1830's in which he stuttered the word "total" when advocating for total abstinence from alcohol.
nuocmami
Hiiii! I saw that you sent me a request a bit ago. Sorry for seeing it so late - just sent another one (:
What do people usually get wrong about you?
Asked by
plumeriapassion
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San Jose
@CH I once read that when people were asked to read an excerpt from a book and guess the gender of the author, most would assume the author is male. That might speak to the way society has shaped our expectations and perhaps could be partly why your readers make such an assumption. :)
Garden Grove
Because I’m introverted and constantly overthinking, (maybe a tad bit of rbf.. ha..) people think I’m standoffish; to but it nicely. The reality is I’m not, I’m just selective with my energy. I’m always looking to improve though, so I know it’s something to work on if I’m giving people that impression of me.
Los Angeles
My craft is in design. It’s often assumed that if you can make things beautiful, you or your work cannot simultaneously be smart
SoldeMarzo
She / Her
Los Angeles, CA
Cliffs of Moher, Ireland🍀
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Where are you at in your life stage?
I’m a young 28 and honestly still…yes STILL figuring life out (I think this is a whole life gig though). Currently working a couple jobs here and there and going back to school after taking some time away. Transition era in full effect!
How's your life?
One can say not necessarily where baby me would have imagined, but hey I like to believe it’s cooking…(in a slow cooker or something). I can say I feel I’m in a phase where I’m trying to start anew after a period of monotony. Trying to get out of my own way to actually get out and create the life I want, all while learning about myself and others in a deeper sense.
What helps you keep your sanity?
Trail walking, playing with my pup, Dancing (kitchen, living room make the best impromptu dance floors).Cooking, having some time to listen to music and study a little bit of metaphysical subjects. Learning about different cultures and traveling when I get the chance!
What is most important to you right now?
Apart from family, I think building and finding equilibrium in my life. From health, spirituality, career-to finding community/ connection with others. Like my favorite Mayan greeting says “In Lak’ech Ala K’in” which translates loosely to “I am you and you are me.” In each connection to others, we find a little of more of ourselves in each other. Whether the connection is brief or long, we are touched one way or another.
Anything you recently found interesting?
I would say learning about fascia, mind-body connection. How the body stores and processes information/experiences and how important it is to merge both when we tend to compartmentalize or at least try to. Our body is always talking!
GoodmorningBeen2
Sol de Marzo, does that have a meaning? Or is it in reference to a song?
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