That my worth and value are based on what others think of me. I'm trying to learn how to love myself and develop a secure attachment style.
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Richmond
I wish I could unlearn how cruel and horrible people can be when they think they are better than others
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Lake Forest
In 9th grade algebra, I learned, "It's fun to graph with y = mx+b" to the tune of YMCA by the village people. It's been 30 years and that song still pops into my head every time anything even remotely suggests a simple slope calculation. I wish I could unlearn that.
That I need to take care of everyone and everything around me.
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Menlo Park
That I don't need to keep chasing new accomplishments to feel worthy! Yes - I grew up in an asian household.
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Saratoga
@0x5344 I can relate to this, even to this day. I'm working to break this pattern after realizing I was applying the same achievement mindset to relationships - trying to 'accomplish' connections and constantly evaluating what I was getting in return. Life is not a business or investment. It's been freeing to accept that relationships, like self-worth, aren't achievements to be unlocked but experiences to be valued for their own sake.
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Mission Viejo
I want to unlearn my tennis backhand so I can relearn it as a two-hander instead of a one-hander. It’s just where the sport is trending that it’s become a liability.
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Saratoga
@CheeseisGood One-handed backhand looks so cool, tho.